Loyalty

  1. First quote for blogI went back  into work this week.  Scheduled to meet a Shell senior executive, first, I found myself standing shoulder to shoulder with all my other colleagues in our canteen turned conference room, listening to the news that the decision has been made to close down our HQ campus and move all activity to London by the end of 2016.  And that the voluntary redundancy process starts in May with the compulsory process to follow thereafter.  None of this comes as a surprise to any of us in the room. Like other companies, operating in low dollar priced oil,  Shell need to trim their costs. In addition, they also have the additional pressure of recouping some of the £45bn they have spent acquiring BG Group. And more broadly, the energy industry is undergoing another seismic shift, an urgent need for a lower and more productive cost base and more innovative thinking to secure cleaner and more easily replicable energy sources for all.   Our Townhall meeting explained context and rationale, the leaders were open, engaged and responsive. The respect and care they demonstrated goes a long way to softening such difficult news. I feel proud to have belonged, to still belong.  And my loyalty is shifting, away from the old and embracing the new.

But loyalty can often be misplaced.  In some cases it can be determined by a bullying, mercurial, hierarchical leadership style which demands respect, creates fear and reduces individuals to shards of themselves often without them realising. Loyalty. Fear image Sometimes loyalty is not earned – “My parents always voted this way”. “My friends always go to this venue”.  “We always go to the supermarket closest to home” etc.  These are cases where loyalty is the default position, leading to complacency and sometimes malpractice.

So for me it’s interesting to think about loyalty in the context of the news I have heard and seen this week.  The tragedy  of Hillsborough, where 96 innocent Liverpool football fans were crushed to death due to inexperience, incompetence and ineffectual decision-making is a perfect example. This is the harrowing true story of grieving families being subjected to psychological bullying, harassment and terror for 27 years. And in this time, many police officers, 116 at least, if the doctored police reports are anything to go by, maintain a steadfast loyalty and silence to their employer.    This is a situation where rank and file are firmly loyal to each other all the way up the organisation and where leaders remain unchallenged and firmly loyal to the rank and file.  loyalty quoteDemonstrated by the extent that leaders will blindly and categorically refute wrong doing within their command structure and will actively seek to apportion blame elsewhere.  A situation where right and wrong and the  personal values which bind the 23 pages of police code and ethics become grey and questionable.

Clear and simple values and ethics form a large part of creating a framework to guide leaders and teams. In the past when launching new organisation values,  we designed the content to enable our senior leadership team to connect with what these values meant for them.  This was done by writing several mainly real life conundrums and ethical dilemmas that our leaders face where there is no right and wrong, where the answer in itself is grey, where only the values of leaders will allow them to arrive at their best  solution.  Facilitating this session allowed me to see and hear the rich diversity of experience, belief and thought in the organisation and it also demonstrated that rarely is there right and wrong.

Of course one man’s truth is another man’s fiction and it is our perspective, our inherent cultural beliefs, myths, stories and legends, our experiences, peer group and leaders which inform our view and command our loyalty.  To balance our bias, we set rules (laws) to help govern our decisions and ensure society abides by these.  We charge our police force, to uphold, guard, protect and enforce these laws.  And we hold them and ourselves to account when these are broken.

In terms of policing perhaps Hillsborough will be the final snapping of the rotten tree branch, shaming us all into demanding a different, more ethically moral and transparent Police Force.  It’s surely effective justice that when situations occur like Hillsborough, the Guildford Four, Maguire Seven and more recently Plebgate, that those in charge are held to account.  But we need to look further and deeper into how this institution ingrains loyalty amongst its rank and file.  Loyalty alternative quoteI don’t believe that all of these police officers blindly follow their leaders when untrue stories are being concocted and shared.  I don’t believe that they all lack integrity and commitment.  So what happens to force their silence, to bind them to their senior officers?  How do you break the ingrained systemic behaviour and belief that if “I look out for you, you will look out for me”, no matter what it takes and the consequences it brings?

Prosecution of senior leadership is only right and proper and it will bring some kind of healing to the bereaved families.  But it’s not the solution.  Cutting off the head of the serpent only means the serpent learns new ways to survive.

For society to regain its belief in the Police Force requires the collective Force to recognise it’s time for root and branch reform.  And painful though this will be, it’s the only way that they will regain the loyalty of society.

And those in big business, who demand unswerving loyalty in return for interesting work, fat pay checks and big benefits, would do well to remember that building a company this way creates shallow foundations.  Irrespective of performance, growth or employee commitment,  an organisation lacking leadership moral fibre and a strong purpose and ethos is always ripe for change.

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Resilience

start quote on resilienceIt’s two weeks before my operation.  The weight and enormity of my cancer diagnosis is behind me.  I’m focused on the practical.  All I have to do, prepare for, organise lies ahead.  There are lists in every notebook, on every large magnetic surface. I am a whirlwind of efficiency, able to project risks, variabilities, possibilities and solutions.  More loquacious than I’ve been for a long time, I ask for and receive help, love, support, kindness.  In amongst this maelstrom, I open an email.  Would I like to participate in  IC Fight Night?  An industry event where four executives postulate on various topics and be red or green carded by the audience.  Immediate feedback.  Immediate discussion.  Immediate interaction and debate.  Four leading industry executives. One winner.  It’s in April next year.  Months away.  I  think about it for less than  a minute before typing “I’d be delighted” and pressing send.

At the same time, my work colleagues  are having to dig deep.  Bigger change than envisaged before is upon them.  The largest corporate takeover in the UK for the  past 15 years is underway.  It’s bound by international regulations and resolution is at least 10 months away. Uncertainty abounds. So much ambiguity, so many choices.  Stay.  Go. Wait. Help!Mandela quote on resilience

I watch, frustratingly near, yet from afar.  The ironic parallels are noted.  Living with my own ambiguity, health and future uncertain,  I am unable to do any more than empathise.  Once at the heart of all people changes, I am relegated to being on the sidelines, not on the pitch.  My choices are focused on family, health, friends.  For the first time in a long time, work comes a distant fourth.    It’s a liberation.  A chance for unfettered learning and curiousity.  I become my own change experiment.great quote on resilience

I slowly learn to live in the now. This happens gradually.  A focus on small stuff – an organised cupboard, a fridge full of green stuff, a wall of past photographic memories, notebooks full of future hopes and dreams.  Little inconsequential decisions, irrelevant by themselves but all together making a larger unseen picture, the ramifications of which are felt by the future choices they enable. I start to become stronger again.   My perspective shifts. I’m living the cure for cancer, not seeking it.   Nothing I do is more important than getting well.

Invariably, time heals; my body and, gradually, my mind.  And before I recognise the change, the snowdrops are peeking out from the grey green foliage, the yellow gold of the daffodils brighten up our country lane and the light of the night begins to lengthen and stretch.  April is here.

And with it comes my past promise. Fight Night.

The week running up to the event, I have all these excuses in my head.  All of the reasons I cannot participate.  Then Craig has to go to Baku in Azerbaijan for work.  It’s like an omen.  I cannot go, I have to look after my son.    But an understanding girlfriend removes the obstacle and once more I am clear to attend.  The only thing stopping me is me.  This is my test.  Can I function in a work environment again?  Can I offer any value?  Do I have anything worthwhile to share?resilience 4

Walking into the room is an inner strength test, almost comparable to being told about potential side effects the night before my operation. All around me are political election slogans and campaign posters.  This is the home of Bell Pottinger,  the advertising agency, whose ability to tap into the Zeitgeist of the day helped bring  Margaret Thatcher to power. In fact, our “fight” is located in the very room where she learned she was the next Prime Minister of the UK.  Thankfully all of this masculine posturing is negated by the warm greeting of a fellow panellist.  She and I joke about what we’re doing before the room starts to fill up.

Formats explained, everyone settled down, Fight Night begins.  A lively debate ensues on the value of having an organisation purpose, which segues into a heated conversation on the validity of resilience and if it’s something which can/should be trained.  I am in the thick of it.  Out of the window goes any reservation that my brain might not be working, that I’m better observing and participating with pithy one liners.  Oh no, I am passionate about purpose and resilience – two areas where I have personally invested these past nine months.  I’m up to my welly boots, and beyond, in debate. resilence diagram
In flow, I share that a purpose is required for attraction, recruitment and engagement – particularly of millennials; that resilience needs to be learned, not taught.  But this is greatly aided by providing a framework and tools for people to explore.  I talk about the value of peer group storytelling and experiences, about holding the conversation and listening.  I talk about brand purpose being so closely aligned to strategy deployment there is no chink between them.  I listen to the discussion on the differences and sameness of brand expression externally and the internal employer brand.  I offer a view on a more transient employee base – made up of knowledge workers, contractors, consultants affecting the employment proposition – challenging participants to stop just thinking about engaging employees. I get carried away talking about operating models and governance and the impact these have on change communications. And I listen to  others and learn much about channel strategy and the changing role of communicators and get involved in discussions on authenticity and leaders.   In summary, I have heaps of  fun.  And somehow, I “win” Fight Night.

But my real win is recognising I have no fear in sharing my truth.  And that, in this freedom, I connect with “flow”.  People may agree or disagree.  Red or Green card.  And I can bend, listen, laugh, be persuaded or stick to my thoughts and beliefs.

But always I am real.

Power Full.

Me.

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Control

In moving from the traditional authoritarian, hierarchical organisation to a locally controlled organisation, the single greatest issue is control.  Beyond money, beyond fame, what drives most executives of traditional organisations is power, the desire to be in control.  Most would rather give up anything than control

Peter Senge, The Fifth Discipline

I have come across this issue many times in my career.  One example involved implementing a global change programme which saw the low-level, repetitive,administrative and data intensive work of our corporate  functions move to Bangalore, India.  bangalore-officeDespite the people outcome – a loss of about 200 roles as the activity moved to our partner in India, the business case and benefits could not be argued.  These included improved service,  greater opportunity to learn from and streamline the work and data and eventually create a more integrated way of using  information.  And save a lost of cost.  But our country managers fought tooth and nail to stop this from happening.  Our Operating Model (the way we are organised to do our work and make decisions) was structured so that these country managers were kings of their own domains with little or no interference from the centre.  They controlled their operation from end to end including their people and their activities.  The role of the Centre was to provide guidance, expertise and solutions which  the country manager could choose to implement or ignore. This made any global change very tricky!  There was little room for tell and do, this was all about influence and persuasion, treating each country manager individually, recognising some are influenced by others, some need to see the change in action first, others need to see the intricate details of the cost savings, yet others needed to speak to and know companies who have implemented similar changes.  Our stakeholder engagement plan was large and complex.  This was not change implemented by ‘sheep -dip’.  At the heart of it all was the fact that the operating model had changed, the centre was asserting control over the kings in country.

UgandaBut I have great empathy with these country managers.  My first role in Africa was as ICL’s Business Transformation Director, tasked with implementing our shift from hardware to software and services.  When the Regional Director  resigned in protest about this change, I found myself with my old job and my new – Regional Director for ICL East Africa and Malawi – poacher and gamekeeper!  Getting under the skin of the new role gave me the insight that what we had planned back in the comfort of HQ in UK, would ruin our business across Africa. This was a continent that had no stable power supply, that needed layer upon layer of infrastructure long before we could talk about IT services.  laying network cable in AfricaOur best sellers – cash machines to rival NCR, retail machines for the growing consumer goods market, laying network cables for business growth – had no room in the new strategy.

The African Exec team spent long and fraught days preparing our response – our 5 year business strategy  – to present to the Group CEO.   I flew back to the UK with the Africa CEO to make this presentation and to influence the Executive team.  It was hard to hear the Group CEO accuse me of “going native”.  We flew back to Johannesburg with their instructions ringing clear in our heads.  We knew the strategy was doable in South Africa but there was little room in East or West Africa for such a move.

Two years later I did a deal with President Museveni of Uganda to automate the voter registration process across Uganda using a thumb print and a bar code scanner. Uganda-Electoral-CommissionThroughout the negotiation and the development of the prototype,  every document was poured over, debated, re-drafted and discussed by our legal and corporate strategy teams in the UK .  On the morning of contract signature a call came from the UK.  On reflection, they did not want us to provide the technology or service it.  We were not to sign.    It was the beginning of the end for ICL in the region. And the most difficult conversation to have personally with the President. This outcome and the reality of  who really was in control was one of my big lessons in business.

There is no such thing as absolute control.  Throughout the chain of command from the fund managers to the board, the CEO, the Exec, the customers, the employees, the suppliers, their suppliers and beyond, no one group or individual has control.  This network and layers of governance keeps everyone safe.

The only thing we control is our thoughts and our behaviours.  Everything else is illusion.

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Don’t wait to appreciate

I’ve spent the last few days listening to and watching the joy that was David Bowie.  I always liked him but some of his work was a bit avant guard, a bit noisy, scary for me. But funnily enough, now he’s gone and I know so much more, I can fully see and appreciate him for the musical icon that he was. Appreciation - David Bowie

But how many more popular personalities of our times know how well their talent is respected and appreciated?  Did Billie Holiday, Amy Winehouse, Jeff Buckley, Sam Cooke, Heath Ledger – this list is endless –  know how loved and appreciated they were in life?  Or do we, like I do for Bowie, only recognise the extent of their talent now it’s no longer available to us?

And those who are gone, closer to home who live in my heart and still guide my conscious and unconscious choices, how much did I tell them, show them, I loved them when I still could?  The answer sadly, is not enough.Dont wait to appreciate image 2

So for those of us unfortunate enough to have to deal with cancer or serious illness,are also given an incredible opportunity to see how much love and care we inspire in our lifetime.  And it is a gift, a blessing and a humbling experience that we experience this now, when we are still here, still living and breathing.

I would not wish my experience of the last few months on anyone.   No one should wait to a serious illness, cancer or death to know how special and truly loved they are.

So don’t hold back.  Be open with your appreciation.  Make the time to chat with  and listen to the supermarket checkout person, the postman, the bin-man, the garage mechanic, the trainee hairdresser who washes your hair, the neighbour, your doctor, florist, dry-cleaner –  in fact anyone you see who brightens your day or makes you feel normal and safe.

Tell those you care for how important they are for you and why. Take a few extra moments in the morning to cherish your loved ones. Share your feelings and thoughts for the day ahead, make sure you hug, touch and hold them tight, even for a brief moment.

Reach out to friends and family who you have not contacted for a while. Acknowledge them, say hello, thank you, strike up a conversation, write an email, make a Skype call.

Don’t wait until they’re gone.  Don’t wait until it’s too late.

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LIVE!

 

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An 85-year old patient looked back on her life and said,

“..God, if I had to live my life over, I would dare more mistakes next time.  I would relax and ramble around and be sillier than I have been this trip.  I would take fewer things so seriously and take more chances.  I would take more trips and climb more mountains and swim more rivers.  I would eat more ice cream and less prunes.  (I would perhaps have more actual troubles but I sure would have fewer imaginary ones.)

You see, I am one of these people who have lived sensibly and safely hour after hour, day after day.  Oh, I have had my moments, and if I had to do it over again, I would have more of them.  In fact, I would try to have nothing else – just moments, one and another, instead of living so many years in a big chair acting like all of those persons who never go anywhere without a thermometer, hot water bottle, a raincoat, a parachute.

If I had to do it again, I would come lighter next time.  If I had to live my life over I would start backwards, early in spring, instead of waiting until the autumn.

I would go to more dances, I would ride more merry-go-rounds.  I would pick more daisies.”

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